LET GO or HOLD ON ..

This usually comes to your mind when you’re having a “deep fight” with your girlfriend/boyfriend. I call it “deep fight” (that’s just me) coz we’re usually digging up all the past mistakes and gathering it all at the table causing you to feel tired of everything and think of throwing it all away coz you’re very mad and you seriously hate that feeling.

Then you start saying “I’m tired in all of these.” And just because your partner didn’t beg you to stay, you decide IT’S OVER.

I’ve seen and heard these stories a couple of times. And I’m wondering why it always has to end in LETTING GO. Some married couples ended up in separations and divorce because they weren’t able to keep their trust. They think the only way to end all the sufferings is to end it all and let go of their love. But why not LET GO OF THE PAIN and HOLD ON TO YOUR LOVE?

Some say HOLDING ON is a very hard thing to do. It is.. – Only when it’s a one-sided love. But if you truly love each other, it’s not that hard at all. You fight, you talk it over, you forgive, and you continue to love. Easy. You can fight again and love again. That’s pretty normal I guess. What’s important is you keep on loving each other. In time, you will grow and move on “together” . But if you fight and leave, it could be a mess.. and you might not be able to go back to clean it up. And someday you’ll say, “I should have stayed.”